8/21/2026 at 1:47:49 AM
I remember having it drilled into me in High School that unless you did well on your finals:1. You wouldn’t get the score you needed to get into a good University and/or accepted into the course you wanted. 2. If you didn’t get into that course, you wouldn’t be able to do <x> for a career. 3. If you DID get into the course you wanted, it needed to be at a top University (which of course required an even higher entry score) or else you’d find it hard to get a job afterwards.
Imagine all of that stress: Telling 16-18 year olds that unless you ace your tests, you won’t be able to do what you want to in life.
by redrix
8/21/2026 at 3:01:12 AM
I remember having it drilled into me in high school that I was procrastinating school work while at my mom's to avoid spending time with my dad and I was faking my sobbing for sympathy and I was a horrible person who was lucky to have a dad as good as I had and how I keep doing the same things wrong and I am a smartass prick who doesn't care about anyone but myself.12-14 was rough.
School work stress was quite tame by comparison. At least your teachers don't scream at you for hours until you forget why.
by NewJazz
8/21/2026 at 4:16:08 AM
I don't think that's what they mean by 'early-life'.by golly_ned
8/21/2026 at 10:29:32 AM
The healthy reaction for 16-18 years old is to not give a damn about that, rebel, and discover the other (or the same) sex and partying.by coldtea
8/21/2026 at 9:07:27 AM
The optimal amount of stress about that stuff is not zero, and most teenagers are going to be desperately biased towards "none of this matters, just peermax".by syllogism
8/21/2026 at 12:14:46 PM
Not to mention having all this on your permanent record.by euroderf
8/21/2026 at 5:10:05 AM
I remember having this in middle school, it was a nightmare and majorly fucked me upby leoh