> ordering food delivery,Before Grubhub, did you feel that way about pizza delivery?
> are in fact damaged by people buying everything online
You enjoyed ordering from mail order catalogs?
Reality check: Before online shopping became a thing, the vast majority of towns in the US did not have a store that had everything you wanted to buy. You had to find a potential dealer in town, get them to order it for you, and pay a premium for that service.
I lived for a number of years in a town that had no FedEx or UPS office. So if you missed a delivery that required a signature, you'd have to drive to the town that did - a 45 minute drive (and in winter, a risky drive if there was snow).
I didn't have a car, so I had to make sure I'm there for 3-4 hours or longer awaiting delivery. If I missed it (I never did), it simply meant the product would get returned, and I'd pay the vendor some kind of fee (restocking, shipping, whatever). It's only the convenience of the Internet that solved some of these problems.
Are there downsides to everything you mentioned? Sure. There are upsides to all of them as well. You're taking a multifaceted concept and reducing it down, not even to a continuum, but to a binary.
8/18/2026
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8:47:47 PM
I too can't detect the meaningful qualitative differences that might emerge from changes in prevalence or intensity of a given behavior.Next up: Oh drinking alcohol is an enjoyable social activity? Well tell that to my uncle who drank 4 liters of vodka and DIED.
I made no such binary distinction, not sure what you're accusing me of.
I am in fact making the same argument you are: there are pros and cons. This was made in rebuttal to the prior comment, which suggested that the people who said "there are cons" or even "there may be cons" have been consistently proven wrong.
by estearum
8/18/2026
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9:00:24 PM
Your last paragraph is a valid rebuttal. And I've done what you did in the first 3.But your first 3 paragraphs serve no one but you.
My suggestion for your future, if you'll consider it, is to write those first 3 paragraphs (they feel good to write!), but next, take a deep breath and delete them.
I agree with your point by the way - everything has pros and cons - and there're tipping points. "Too much of a good thing" is true of so much in life.
by cadamsdotcom