8/4/2026 at 7:47:46 PM
I talk to a lot of people in the Metro NY area. One problem here is -- if you need to commute into Manhattan (job center) -- it demands a certain salary, below which commuting in is a net-loss. Rent is $2000/mo. If you have a family and cannot have multiple roommates, you might be looking at $4000/mo."if you cannot afford it, stop complainingb and live elsehwere" they say...sure...but a commuter train into Manhattan can run you $30-50/day. Add in parking at the commuter train station and you're down about $60 or more a day.
Now suppose you eke out some net saving -- you've unqualified yourself from medicaid health insurance now. Your net savings may not even pay for your medical deductible.
There are a lot of reasons to just not bother unless the salary can get beyond all these hurdles.
by TuringNYC
8/4/2026 at 8:20:54 PM
Your theory is that some people don't find it financially worthwhile to work in NYC, so therefore they decide to just give up and not work and not move anywhere else and just do absolutely nothing instead?by thegrim33
8/4/2026 at 8:46:10 PM
In an economy where someone staying home to care for children or elderly parents can easily save $40-60k, I'd believe it.Homemakers aren't doing nothing, they're just not represented.
by washadjeffmad
8/4/2026 at 9:08:03 PM
You have to work where the jobs are. Where the jobs are is expensive as fuck, AI and the economy are driving down labor costs (both actual number of salaries and the cost of those individual salaries)... but rent and other living costs are only going up.by sleepybrett
8/4/2026 at 8:38:55 PM
> "if you cannot afford it, stop complainingb and live elsehwere" they say...sure...but a commuter train into Manhattan can run you $30-50/day. Add in parking at the commuter train station and you're down about $60 or more a day.When people say that, I think they mean "get another job in another city that doesn't require a commute to Manhattan."
by BeetleB
8/4/2026 at 8:24:26 PM
But New York City as a metro area is the largest conglomeration connected by low-cost mass transit in the country meaning there's a massive liquid housing market and job market ready to fingertips. So if you live in the suburbs and the commuting cost is a dilemma you can always consider moving to the city itselfby redwood
8/4/2026 at 8:31:13 PM
your suggestion to cash strapped people who can barely afford rent is "just buy a house in new york"?by devindotcom