7/2/2026 at 12:23:33 AM
Still, I don't want to gate people based on age.Parents should at least be able to overwrite the age of their child, maybe selectively allow bypasses. My experience with a computer would have been completely different if I was blocked from half of the internet. Especially when I see which kind of content gets blocked.
by dadoum
7/2/2026 at 12:55:43 AM
As a millennial-aged person I saw a fair amount of content I would not want the young people in my life to see, but it's probably not nearly as harmful as the non-age gated content that they will still have access to. There is a lot creepy youtube and tiktok content that isn't off limits but still unhealthy and my younger relatives are fascinated by it.by doginasuit
7/2/2026 at 5:54:53 AM
Not that I want my kids looking at porn or violent content, but I’m far more concerned about man-o-sphere influencers than that other stuff.by kentm
7/2/2026 at 6:14:48 AM
I had to Google "man-o-sphere". Is it particularly more dangerous or toxic than other identity-based activist communities? Genuinely curious to knowby sciencejerk
7/2/2026 at 6:34:53 AM
Yes, a lot of it involves denigrating women and an entitled and very rigid attitude towards the male place in society (alphas etc).This is incredibly toxic for young men growing up and the women they interact with.
Some of the more prominent proponents are actual pimps (the Tate brothers).
by grey-area
7/2/2026 at 3:36:29 PM
Is manosphere related to "red pill"?by sciencejerk
7/2/2026 at 4:32:05 PM
Yesby jplusequalt
7/2/2026 at 11:41:50 AM
How is that different than pervasive pornography though? Many young boys now think it’s normal to ask girls for sexual acts before having ever kissed a girl.by elcritch
7/2/2026 at 12:59:39 PM
It is, as pornography is about sexual acts, while the manosphere is discussing the role they believe men and women should play in all aspects of life, not just sex and romance. They believe and teach that women shouldn't be managers, knowledge workers, professors, politicians, shouldn't have a right to vote (at least not differently from the man who essentially owns them) etc.Pornography may give some people some wrong ideas about sex and romantic relationships, might even instill some level of implicit misoginy in certain straight men, but I'm pretty sure you won't get the idea that women should be allowed in Parliament from watching too much porn.
by tsimionescu
7/2/2026 at 12:49:17 PM
> Many young boys now think it’s normal to ask girls for sexual acts before having ever kissed a girl.This is a common media talking point, but are there any hard figures for this 'many'? The type you're describing existed when I was young, long before the internet. My impression of boys and young men today is that they are generally just as decent, cautious, respectful and idealistic as they ever were - but that a small crude and unpleasant minority taints the reputation of the whole generation.
by squidbeak
7/2/2026 at 4:26:07 PM
I don't think it's a "reputation" issue, more of a what they're being exposed to and what it's normalizing. From studies I've seen it's a significant percentage (from a random Google search [1]):The review talked to young people aged 13 to 19 and surveyed 1,000 young people aged 16 to 21. Over 6 in 10 (64%) said they had seen online pornography. Of these:
1 in 10 (10%) of nine-year-olds had seen pornography
3 in 10 (27%) of children had seen pornography by age 11
Half (50%) of children had seen it by age 13
4 in 5 (79%) had seen violent pornography before the age of 18, with the report stating “young people are frequently exposed to violent pornography, depicting coercive, degrading or pain-inducing sex acts”.
1: https://www.fpa.org.uk/rshe-for-teachers/uk-online-child-sex...
by elcritch
7/3/2026 at 1:22:40 PM
It definitely is a reputation issue: unless I'm misunderstanding something, you are using this data to suggest a greater incidence of violent sexual behavior among young men as a result to their exposure to ugly types of pornography.You don't seem to have any data putting your figures into any context over time: run the same study in the 80s and I would wager you'd see similar even worse results. Wank mags and grainy VHS were passed around schools from the moment they appeared, including BDSM and torture porn - often in the form of sleazy B-movies. Sure, pornography is far easier to access today. But the material is the same, and this notion that somehow, today's boys and young men are worse for this exposure than their predecessors is insidious and deeply ignorant.
It is significantly more difficult to find young men today who think it's acceptable for husbands to beat their wives - or that rape is never rape in marriage. Or who think they can get a woman drunk to seduce her. Campaigners had to work damn hard to raise public consciousness out of the traditionalist inertia around these blights. Frankly, to anyone like me, old enough to compare several different eras and their male representatives, comments like yours and the inferences you'd have people draw from them, are utterly ridiculous - and yes, hugely unjust to the overwhelming majority of young men who flinch from the idea of hurting a woman in bed or out of it, regardless of what type of pornography they've been exposed to.
by squidbeak
7/3/2026 at 2:02:20 PM
> But the material is the same, and this notion that somehow, today's boys and young men are worse for this exposure than their predecessors is insidious and deeply ignorant.No what's ignorant is ignoring the prevalence and nature of modern online pornography. Hopefully you realize that having the worst of what previous generations might've been exposed occassionally to by copying grainy VHS videos is literally a few clicks away now.
Much like social media it's pushed constantly onto them (well all us men). It's a giant predatory industry with a very addictive product.
It's not a reputation thing because it's about how destructive it is to society as a whole to both men and women. It's a very different sort of destructive behavior than previous generations might've had.
> hugely unjust to the overwhelming majority of young men who flinch from the idea of hurting a woman in bed or out of it
There's lots of great young guys out there. How about we not regress due by allowing new rampant destructive influences. That's my perspective.
We're seeing huge upticks in "incels" and "red-pilled" young men now. IMHO that's largely influenced by pervasive (mysoginist) pornography.
Even then, apparently young women don't agree with you as recent polls show young women don't view men favorably anymore [1]. So apparently something, or many things, are going wrong.
1: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-men-fe...
by elcritch
7/2/2026 at 3:08:51 PM
Huge gap between producing material that depicts (presumably) consensual sexual activities between adults and telling young boys to commit rape.by scott_w
7/2/2026 at 4:21:58 PM
Practically speaking there's not much difference since there's a large amount of violent or extreme pornography which also teaches boys that directly or indirectly. It also teaches girls that it's "ok" cause they see it online.There's many studies and organizations who publish warnings about violent pornography and young adults:
Dr Ruth Weir of City St George's, University of London, said extreme porn had been "normalised online" and was now "playing out in young people's relationships". [1]
by elcritch
7/2/2026 at 5:06:09 PM
Unless I'm missing somethiny, that article has no data that backs up Dr. Ruth Weir's claim.It first posits that adult content has been normalized online, then cites unrelated statistics about abuse victims who had watched adult content. There's nothing that convincingly links that that first statement to the latter data.
by jplusequalt
7/2/2026 at 5:53:05 PM
Perhaps try reading the report linked in the third paragraph of the news article?It's at: https://www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk/resource/pornograph...
To quote from that report:
A literature review of 19 academic papers, drawing on multiple methodologies since 2005, conducted by the Government Equalities Office (GEO) to assess the relationship between pornography exposure and negative behaviours towards women and girls found that pornography use had a statistically significant association with attitudes supporting violence against women (with violent pornography showing an even stronger association). [44] A meta-analysis of 9 studies found a significant association between pornography use among adult men and attitudes supporting violence against women, such as ‘rape myth acceptance’. [45] The association was found to be significantly stronger for violent pornography than non-violent pornography. Other studies involving young adults, including Peter and Valkenburg (2009) [46] and Hald et al. (2013), [47] have found that past pornography exposure among young males is significantly associated with less egalitarian and more aggressive attitudes towards women. This is particularly worrying when young people are being exposed to pornography.
by elcritch
7/2/2026 at 6:56:30 PM
[dead]by jplusequalt
7/2/2026 at 12:09:46 PM
Seems like they could use some sex ed coursesby khalic
7/2/2026 at 11:51:42 PM
The Manosphere is going to convince the impressionable young boys and men they are entitled to be treated in the same way as the men in the porn videos, consent be dammed. This is the main problem.by aussieguy1234
7/2/2026 at 2:06:02 PM
[flagged]by AlexandrB
7/2/2026 at 11:49:53 PM
Incel is a subculture.[1]by pseudalopex
7/3/2026 at 7:17:15 AM
The point is that virgin men or single men get called "Incel", because of how it stings as an insult, not because they are part of a subculture or have the mindset of that subculture.Imagine being lumped in with crystal meth addicts because your friend gave you a cigarette once.
by imtringued
7/2/2026 at 2:19:36 PM
I want to be excruciatingly clear: Andrew Tate is a sex trafficker that tells millions of impressionable boys they are owed sex and that women should not be permitted to vote or hold positions of influence, and that they cannot have platonic relationships with women.The word incel, on the other hand, describes men who are disgustingly behaved and as a result are unable to have romantic relationships.
These are not, in any way, the same thing. This is NOT an example of horseshoe theory.
by Tadpole9181
7/2/2026 at 11:00:21 AM
Maybe? "Identity-based activist communities" are incredibly toxic as a rule.Maybe there's lasting harm from engaging in them early. Or maybe it's better to get exposed to them early in your life, so that you have time to figure out why you don't want anything to do with them.
Either way, it seems pretty clear that preventing children and teens from engaging them is a nonstarter. You can't get anywhere close to consensus on "this is harmful and should be banned" because, guess what, someone's entire identity is going to be built around such communities.
by ACCount37
7/2/2026 at 11:30:02 AM
I think it is safe to rule out early engagement as a positive factor.by doginasuit
7/2/2026 at 1:00:52 PM
Early engagement maybe, but early exposure, especially to communities that you happen to not be attracted to, may be a net positive.by tsimionescu
7/2/2026 at 11:08:28 AM
I would say what sets it apart is the undercurrent of anger and grievance combined with the self destructive beliefs that are prevalent in the community. It's men and boys who struggle to find acceptance and belonging, maybe even for reasons that are initially sympathetic. But instead of healthy self-reflection and feedback, they find a distorted understanding of themselves and masculinity that only reinforces their isolation.by doginasuit
7/2/2026 at 2:44:32 PM
This is just a caricature. It's like saying all women's spaces are bad because some female influencers tell their massive followings that men should pay for expensive shopping trips on the first date. This mischaracterisation through cherry picking is destructive.by philipallstar
7/2/2026 at 11:39:47 PM
Who said all men's spaces were bad?by pseudalopex
7/2/2026 at 6:51:27 PM
Here is the real manosphere no one tells you about https://youtube.com/watch?v=JshlJzZRi64by guilhas
7/2/2026 at 1:24:12 PM
Louis Theroux did a documentary on it recently if you want to learn more.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Louis_Theroux:_Inside_the_Mano...
by latexr
7/2/2026 at 1:07:53 PM
"Identity based activist communities" feels like a hilariously ham-fisted attempt to connect together extremely different groups.by jrm4
7/2/2026 at 9:40:20 AM
[dead]by z0ltan
7/2/2026 at 1:47:39 PM
I'm "Genuinely curious" and I'm "just asking" are so man-o-sphere "coded"by totetsu
7/2/2026 at 1:34:32 PM
The "man-o-sphere" is pornographic. Look at the porn-brained Tate brothers for an example. That is their whole ethos and their souls are rotted out by it. Both are based in dehumanization and contempt for women and draws from the well of insecurity, viciousness, and psychological disorder. Both entrench and deepen psychological disorder and immorality.I think the basic error is that we're making a concession to obscene content and the sophists in our midst who have spent decades deploying the garbage of moral relativism and fallacious appeals to "freedom" to defend evil. The argument for age verification here is weakened if, instead, the production and distribution of pornography is outlawed.
That you cannot perfectly enforce the law doesn't mean the law has no value or function. The purpose of the law is not undermined by imperfect enforcement, and it isn't exhausted by enforceability. Law is a teacher. Anti-porn laws would still carry psychological and social weight. They are a declaration of what is not tolerated and what is not good and contributes to the stigmatization of bad things. That creates a higher hurdle in people's minds to seek out and engage in such activity and creates shame around such activities that itself dissuades.
I would also add that pornography and drugs have a history of being used in psychological warfare. Oligarchs ruining society? Allow pornography and it will absorb people's attention and cripple them emotionally and rationally to neutralize them. Or consider the recent loosening of drug laws or debate about loosing them - which I do not accept is coincidental - to give people another dulling and numbing agent and an escape. It is in the corrupt interests of an oligarchic elite to corral the herd. The police baton is painful and creates a dangerous indignation and resentment, but pornography and drugs do not.
by lo_zamoyski
7/2/2026 at 2:14:29 PM
So, re-instate the Hays Code, essentially? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hays_Codeby nerdsniper
7/2/2026 at 6:01:41 AM
Manosphere content is toxic and harmful but the hyperviolence and desensitisation of the former should not be downplayed. That's where the mass shooters evidently come from.by pphysch
7/2/2026 at 6:23:37 AM
A hundred thousand furries consuming unfathomable amounts of porn without shooting up anyone kind of cast doubt about that point.by Balinares
7/2/2026 at 9:13:12 AM
And 99 out of hundred get tired of porn at some point. We all have watched it and moved on. If only one can shoot and move on.by vharish
7/2/2026 at 6:30:56 AM
Who is talking about furries? But Tyler James Robinson and Benjamin Jeffrey Smith. I guess that's only 2/100k to your point?by sciencejerk
7/2/2026 at 6:16:06 AM
> That's where the mass shooters evidently come from.I mean, quite a few have come from proto-manosphere circles, too. Elliot Rodger comes to mind.
by nearlyepic
7/2/2026 at 11:19:34 AM
Given how large it is, I don't think it's a high stat. Especially compared with other subcultures. And we don't blame feminism for every instance where a man is killed by a man hating woman.by scotty79
7/2/2026 at 1:03:51 PM
> And we don't blame feminism for every instance where a man is killed by a man hating woman.The fact that this is basically unheard of, while incels shooting up schools is somewhat common, may explain why blame is often thrown at one movement and not the other.
by tsimionescu
7/2/2026 at 2:32:24 PM
[flagged]by scotty79
7/2/2026 at 3:34:39 PM
So can you give an example of a crazed man-hating feminist woman engaging in a mass shooting? Or just of a woman engaging in a mass shooting (alone, not with a man) in the last, say, 10 years? 20 years? 50 years?Because I can definitely give you examples of incels doing this. Not a huge amount, mind you, but at least some.
by tsimionescu
7/2/2026 at 4:55:36 PM
The asymmetry is striking: when feminists talk about incels, it’s about how to improve their lives and help them out of the cognitive trap they’ve fallen or been lured into. I’ve never seen the equivalent of the pervasive casual, often gleeful, calls for violence and degradation which characterize the “manosphere”.by acdha
7/3/2026 at 6:18:59 AM
I think men hating women don't usually do mass killings. They mostly kill specific men they hate the most.by scotty79
7/3/2026 at 8:51:43 PM
OK, the a female serial killer, killing the men she hates the most, one after the other.Or do you just mean that some women kill a man because they hate that particular man? Because that's not what "man-hating" means. I might hate Adolf Hitler, who was a man, but that doesn't make me "a man hating man".
by tsimionescu
7/2/2026 at 4:51:15 PM
Half the country talks about feminism like it is an existential threat, including the millions upon millions of people who consume manosphere content.by mrguyorama
7/2/2026 at 4:26:59 PM
I wouldn't equate incel with manosphere. Manosphere is often hypersexual and about greed/consumption and being insecure and getting scammed, whereas inceldom is more hate-based.by pphysch
7/2/2026 at 10:09:22 AM
> That's where the mass shooters evidently come from.Bollocks. European teenagers watch just as much porn and play GTA at age 10 and yet we don't end up having 12 children a day die from gun violence [1].
Note, I'm not an anti-gun nut, I think German and British anti-gun laws are ridiculously strict. But the American way of dealing with guns is equally bad.
[1] https://www.sandyhookpromise.org/resources/gun-violence-fact...
by mschuster91
7/2/2026 at 1:37:14 PM
> we don't end up having 12 children a day die from gun violenceNote that this definition of "children" includes ages up 24 years old. Not that the US doesn't have a gun violence problem, but pretending 24 year olds are "children" in order to gain a better sound bite doesn't help anybody.
by technothrasher
7/3/2026 at 6:32:26 AM
If you look at the actual statistics there are 1300 annual homicides killing children which amounts to 3.5 children + teenagers a day.Then there are gun suicides which I would not count as gun violence, amounting to another 3.5 children + teenagers a day.
by imtringued
7/2/2026 at 8:55:58 AM
>That's where the mass shooters evidently come from.Citation needed?
by Zababa
7/2/2026 at 1:01:41 PM
I was going to name drop one, but then I realized, I wouldn't want others on HN to wind up looking it up. Let's just say, you eventually see snuff films and the like. Not something any child should be exposed to, heck even as an adult, I want nothing to do with such things, but there it was, a random .mp4 someone shared, what do you do? Curiosity killed the innocence.by giancarlostoro
7/2/2026 at 6:06:18 AM
If you saw a bunch of it and presumably are fine what does it matter then? Sure it might have been uncomfortable for a few days and you may not have understood right away but so what? That's almost every week as a kid. Seeing some titties is probably the least confusing.by vasco
7/2/2026 at 7:18:03 AM
Many uncles of friends (or fathers, who knows) had stacks of porn mags we knew where they were as 70s kids. When very young they were icky and after that we took them home. Who cares.by anonzzzies
7/2/2026 at 1:52:20 AM
We need to stop this helicopter civilization bullshit.We're building 1984 to protect from god knows what imaginary harms.
Stop putting plastic wrap around people's freedoms, liberty, and right to privacy.
by echelon
7/2/2026 at 3:07:12 AM
The harms of smartphones and social media are about as far from imaginary as it could get. The data is screaming at us.We will look back at handing kids phones with instagram like giving kids cigarettes and think wtf were we doing.
by Gigachad
7/2/2026 at 3:50:18 AM
And I find that harm to be far less than the harm caused by identifying everybody all the time and censoring topics to people based on government provided tokens.by AngryData
7/2/2026 at 8:18:03 AM
Therapy and meditation is an effective remedy for this kind of suffering.by kelseyfrog
7/2/2026 at 11:07:07 AM
A dystopian state?by brigandish
7/2/2026 at 2:14:19 PM
You're restating the problem, but the issue is with the proposed solution. Creating a surveillance state in an attempt to improve society is myopic. We know a surveillance apparatus will be abused to oppress people (it's already happening in the US: we have stories all the way back to the NSA/Snowden, but just last week Flock cameras were being abused to stalk ex-girlfriends, the list is endless), so pushing for that particular approach creates a bigger problem (authoritarian surveillance state) than it solves (some kids watching porn and tiktok).Edgar Friendly got it right, back in 1993:
> See, according to Cocteau's plan, I'm the enemy. Cause I like to think, I like to read. I'm into freedom of speech and freedom of choice. I'm the kind if guy who wants to sit in a greasy spoon and think, "Gee, should I have the T-bone steak or the jumbo rack of barbecued ribs with the side order of gravy fries?" I want high cholesterol. I want to eat bacon, butter and buckets of cheese, okay? I want to smoke a Cuban cigar the size of Cincinnati in a non-smoking section. I wanna run through the streets naked with green Jello all over my body reading Playboy magazine. Why? Because I suddenly might feel the need to. Okay, pal? I've seen the future, you know what it is? It's a 47-year-old virgin sittin' around in his beige pajamas, drinking a banana-broccoli shake singing "I'm an Oscar-Meyer Wiener".
by rpdillon
7/2/2026 at 12:35:46 PM
I remember the video nasties of the 90s were 'far from imaginary dangers' for kids, before that it was rock music that the data was screaming at us about. Maybe social media does hold an actual danger this time, but we are a hysterical bunch of knee-jerk reactionary nutjobs, when it comes to new things and kids.I wouldn't be surprised if 20 years from now we see social media as just another hysterical reaction that generated a generation of bad law, wrecking, or diminishing a number of lives, for no good reason at all.
by cortic
7/3/2026 at 12:31:04 PM
You're assuming that history has proven the rock music and video games weren't harmful to kids, which I do not grant.by hollerith
7/2/2026 at 6:04:06 AM
It's no coincidence cigarettes were named 'torches of freedom' to get women to start paying up for the privilege of using them a hundred years ago.by imjonse
7/2/2026 at 3:52:10 AM
Are you sure it's just kids?In dealing with the ills of social media, you do what you do with every other negative externality - you tax it. At least the parts of it you don't like.
Designing privacy, freedom, and liberty destroying mechanisms is not the way.
Big social wants these regulations to pass so that they can get better identity tracking for ads targeting. To them it doesn't matter if the tech ushers in 1984. It makes them more money.
by echelon
7/2/2026 at 3:55:35 AM
It's definitely not just kids. Social media is a lot like meth, we should at a bare minimum stop giving it to kids as soon as possible. And then come to realise it's bad for everyone and should be wound back.by Gigachad
7/2/2026 at 7:12:08 AM
Their argument would be, "If meth is a negative externality, we should just tax it instead of banning it in stores for kids to buy." Kids may die, but I'm sure with all that extra state revenue we'll get a nice park or museum or kickback to Tesla or something.by Paracompact
7/2/2026 at 11:45:09 AM
> Kids may die, but I'm sure with all that extra state revenue we'll get a nice park or museum or kickback to Tesla or something.The argument, which has some pretty decent evidence behind it, is that prohibition is the thing that kills people. Because it has to be smuggled, dealers switch from "normal" hard drugs to overdose triggers like fentanyl with 1000x the potency because then they only have to smuggle 0.1% as much of it, which in turn kills people because street dealers cut it improperly and users get wildly different effective doses or drugs cut with dangerous contaminants.
Notice that meth literally is legal in the US. Essentially anyone can get amphetamines by going to a doctor and telling them you have the symptoms it gets prescribed to treat. It's even prescribed to kids. The primary barrier is having health insurance and the ability to take off work during the day every month to get a refill. Which is why the people dying of overdose are the people priced out of that system, who wouldn't be if they could buy it at Walmart, but because they can't they resort to the entirely unregulated black market and die of a fentanyl overdose.
by AnthonyMouse
7/2/2026 at 8:19:35 AM
Be careful this is HN. There's a decent chance someone genuinely believes this.by kelseyfrog
7/2/2026 at 12:37:10 PM
looking for me?by tancop
7/2/2026 at 4:24:39 PM
Are you willing to expound on the meth tax idea? Just curious.by kelseyfrog
7/2/2026 at 11:29:58 AM
But then what's the point of forcing IDs on everyone instead of cutting to the chase?by AnthonyMouse
7/2/2026 at 5:30:02 AM
I'm not sure I get your arguement hereAre you saying that we should let children smoke and just tax it because its better for their liberty and freedoms?
Or are you saying we should just tax social media for adults but banning it for kids is ok
by bloqs
7/2/2026 at 7:22:10 AM
We do that here; heavy tax sigarettes (and booze): both dropped like a lead balloon. So yes, tax it for everyone. Kids cannot pay for sigarettes and most adults don't want to (most vapers I know do it because it costs far less; that should be taxed more too imho). If browsing insta/tiktok costs an euro per hour, let's see how many still do it; I'd say they go bankrupt in a few months. Apparently it was never that interesting.by anonzzzies
7/2/2026 at 8:15:41 AM
The data isn't screaming at us. That's an illusion caused by the flood of bad academic papers on the topic.A good example is the Jonathan Haidt/Aaron Brown fiasco from a few years ago. Brown has been methodically trying to stop the stampede off yet another pseudo-scientific cliff but not enough people are listening.
https://reason.com/2023/03/29/the-statistically-flawed-evide...
https://reason.com/video/2024/04/02/the-bad-science-behind-j...
https://reason.com/2023/05/30/not-every-study-on-teen-depres...
> In a recent article for Reason, I argued that the hundreds of studies that New York University professor Jonathan Haidt has assembled to support his claim that social media is causing the teen mental health crisis not only don't back up his claim; they undermine it.
Age verification campaigners like Haidt play a smooth game but consistently downplay how useless social science actually is for answering questions like this:
> I didn't express "concerns" about specific studies; I argued that the majority of the 301 papers cited in his document are garbage. I went through each category of studies on Haidt's list, chose the first one that studied social media and depression to get a random sampling, and then showed that they were so embarrassingly bad as to be completely useless. They were guilty of coding errors, fatal defects hidden in mid-paper jargon, inappropriate statistics, longitudinal studies that weren't longitudinal, experiments in name only, and red flags for hypothesis shopping and p-hacking (that is, misusing data analysis to yield results that can be presented as statistically significant).
It's possible that in the past few years a wealth of robust evidence has suddenly emerged but it seems doubtful.
This stuff does matter. If you misdiagnose the problem then congrats, you just let governments censor the internet - quite possibly creating a China style totalitarian system that pretends to be democratic along the way - and kids will still have the same problems. A bad outcome!
by mike_hearn
7/3/2026 at 8:06:53 AM
Gonna violate a site rule briefly to comment on voting. The vote swings on this post are fascinatingly wild (at least compared to normal). There's a ton of both up and downvotes going on continuously, but no replies. On Reddit this would be considered a highly "controversial" post by their algorithm.The interpretation is interesting. Probably, a lot of people don't like criticism of academia or have already made an emotional investment in the social media hypothesis, but aren't sure how to respond to Brown's critiques of the studies. So it just swings up and down with otherwise no engagement.
by mike_hearn
7/2/2026 at 8:58:31 AM
Why are we only focused on kids? the boomers are doing more harm to the society and democracy by spreading mis-information via social media. If we want to have an honest conversation let's talk about every age group and limit it to everyone rather than using kids as a scapegoatby sajithdilshan
7/2/2026 at 6:49:30 AM
"We" are building 1984 to make sure "We" stay in power of our EU Animal Farm.by PeterStuer
7/2/2026 at 7:23:10 AM
EU? It's mostly happening elsewhere though. See: Australia. See: California. See: KIDS act. See: KOSA.Sounds like denial or tunnel vision.
by krige
7/3/2026 at 6:29:31 PM
Have you read the DSA?by PeterStuer
7/2/2026 at 2:00:20 AM
[flagged]by countcol
7/2/2026 at 2:28:37 AM
The legal guardian is responsible for gatekeeping what their minor sees or does not see.by smilekzs
7/2/2026 at 2:05:40 AM
I'd seen all the shock websites by age 12. Kids love to prank each other.None of this is a real harm. The real harms are the government being able to put a muzzle on speech, track who says what, and begin to cordon off areas of thought and expression.
You might think it's a win that this is happening, but you won't be the one in charge and you won't have a say how it's used against you.
by echelon
7/2/2026 at 2:39:54 AM
I don't think it is a win, I'm not sure how you got that from my comment. There should be enough room for nuance to acknowledge that the internet is uniquely unhealthy for young people. I don't find 'I saw all the bad stuff and look how great I turned out' very compelling.If empirical research showed that some kind of intervention would be helpful, I'd be in favor of it even if it comes at a cost. But I don't think age-gating will prove effective as an intervention. If anyone needs to be reined in, it is tech companies that exploit attention and gather data, and the age-gating controversy is a costly distraction.
by doginasuit
7/2/2026 at 2:58:04 AM
Shock sites are materially different to the harm kids do to one another on social media.by denkmoon
7/2/2026 at 3:39:57 AM
> Shock sites are materially different to the harm kids do to one anotherThis would be the "fixed" version of your comment. The social media bit is irrelevant.
Kids have always been assholes to other kids. I took the school bus a few times, and the older neighborhood kids tried to chase me down, beat me, and piss on me. That was before the internet.
You can't make up for other parents' bad parenting by trying to invent a system to bubble wrap all the kids. You teach your own kids to be strong in the face of adversity, to grow a thick skin, and to stand up for themselves.
by echelon
7/3/2026 at 1:34:03 AM
Yeah I grew up in the kinda bad part of town taking the bus every day. I got bullied. I never had someone generate pornographic images of me though.The internet is just society now. it's not something different. You get privacy in your home, but you don't get to go out into public and say things without it being attributed to your identity. The things you say publicly are intrinsically linked with your public identity. Why should online be any different?
by denkmoon
7/2/2026 at 4:50:10 AM
Just because you survived it doesn't mean that it's "not real harm." I am sympathetic to privacy concerns, but the downsides also need to be taken seriously and mitigated where it's possible to do so without critically compromising privacy.by fwipsy
7/2/2026 at 2:32:02 PM
When privacy disappears, liberty soon follows.You are cheerleading the erosion of our freedom for a harm that you can't even quantify.
Tax and fine Meta for selling to kids and the social media targeting them will disappear. That is the correct solution, and it is so ridiculously easy to implement.
Instead we have insiders and lobbyists crawling out of the woodwork to suggest we place tracking of everyone's identities onto every internet ingress. That makes these companies even wealthier, but -- much worse -- it gives the government and people in power a new noose to hang us. One that they'll never give up once they obtain it.
We'll have to sign in with social credits by the time I retire, and they'll revoke your access for wrongthink and send minders to your location to reeducate you. Think that's not real? It's happening right now in other countries. It is real, and it's coming if you help them pass the laws.
STOP TRYING TO FORCE ID VERIFICATION OF ONLINE ACTIVITY.
If you do this, you're the enemy of freedom.
by echelon
7/2/2026 at 6:19:17 AM
I have a hunch that the Epstein class is getting increasingly upset about the kids encountering ideas about what ought to be done about the Epstein class, and mostly are keen to see the next generation molded back into good little subservient laborers. It really isn't about the well-being of the kids.by Balinares
7/2/2026 at 7:03:25 AM
Websites should have an easy way to check whether the connecting device has a child lock turned on. We don’t need to identify the person using the device at all. It should be up to parents to make sure their kids use device that are locked.by skybrian
7/2/2026 at 11:28:45 AM
Or even better, just let the website return a set of flags (like age_rating=18) in a header and let the user agent decide if it wants to show it, block it, ask for approval, ...Then the policy lives on the user agent.
by kevincox
7/2/2026 at 7:17:36 AM
This is clearly the right way to do things. Just make devices have a forced choice for their age setting on initial setup, and expose that to apps and websites.Insane that they didn't even try this simple solution first. Yeah people will get around it, but they'll get around any solution.
by IshKebab
7/2/2026 at 12:34:21 PM
That’s what the California law does.by tzs
7/2/2026 at 8:07:20 AM
I hesitate to comment on these because hundreds of comments have already said it and I don't have anything new to add.- The age-gate should just be a setting on the device: either over 18 or under 18. Websites/apps should at most only be legally required to respect the device's assertions.
- Devices should be controllable by parents: let the parents decide whether the child should be age-restricted or not.
- Devices should have profiles so that you can let your kids use your own phone/laptop without messing up your stuff or getting into things they shouldn't.
Historically parents have been allowed to rent R-rated movies for their kids with nudity and sex and violence even if the video store isn't supposed to rent it out to the kids directly. That was always considered okay. If I think my 16-year old is mature enough to watch some porn, that should be the parents' decision.
by nerdsniper
7/2/2026 at 12:39:00 PM
That’s pretty close to the California law.by tzs
7/2/2026 at 8:05:57 AM
You are imagining that a solution for you will be deemed a solution for the political powers pushing for this. Or that being age-verified is the main danger of having age-verification.That would be nice!
But if there isn't a safe market driven solution to age-verification, which provides anonymous, unsurveiled, age-attested site access, with no ability for the government to individual monitor, deny or revoke, then that is exactly what is going to get pushed on all of us.
You don't defeat an enemy by not needing the manacles they are very motivated to force on everyone..
Increasingly: We adopt zero knowledge proofs, and other decentralized open-sourced hard-security technologies, and resolve seemingly-small, but not-going-away practical issues like age & porn, or empower and "trust" every weak politician, interest group and stranger on the internet to not use our lack of awareness and defense against us.
Add AI to the mix, and the risk/damage of passivity becomes extreme.
by Nevermark
7/2/2026 at 10:37:37 AM
I do. I’m going to take a wild guess that you are an old head like me, male, and lived your youth in the wonderful internet free of commercialisation of human interaction, free to roam and find new cool things and people, a wonderful library of Alexandria to learn and spend time in.Discuss what the experience was/is to zoomers and younger, especially girls. Did you try to play a silly online game with your friends while being constantly harassed by 3-4 adult men? How many times someone offered you money (in form of “lootboxes”) to get nude pictures of you when you were severely underage? Or was on every site you visited an algorithm pushing on your face content about how you should embrace anorexia, start gambling on what Trump says on TV, use drugs, or simply do a suicide?
Hey fellow unc’s, we really need to stop nostalgising on the computer childhood of our youth and listen to the kids (as well as a bunch of research on the topic) and face the fact that the internet of the friendly geeks and nerds of the yesterday does not exist anymore. Things have to change, if we want to have any kind of working society left whatsoever.
by delis-thumbs-7e
7/2/2026 at 10:46:28 AM
I completely agree with you, but what this shows is a momentous change in the landscape of the internet, facilitated by mass marketing, data collection, commercialisation and even financialisation of digital game assets.This is a huge shift that cannot be rectified by simple age filters.
Being realistic about the problem requires being realistic about ill-conceived solutions with conspicuous benefits for commercial actors.
Besides an array of largely static, non-interactive websites, there is no hard line between content that is suitable for young eyes and not.
by finghin
7/2/2026 at 11:41:40 AM
A bit further up there's a really nice comment about how those studies are just garbage.by corroclaro
7/2/2026 at 1:08:35 PM
you said listen to the kids, but if you actually ask kids they will tell you they want a way to block predators and bullies. they want to restrict interactions with specific people or groups on their own terms because thats where all the real harm comes from. they do not want whole sites or categories of content to be blocked.and even if you think kids dont understand it enough to make that choice for themselves you should let parents do it. if a family thinks their kids can have unlimited access the government should let them.
thats where the california bill comes in as the only reasonable option. it gives families a choice instead of forcing restrictions on everyone and theres no privacy problem because its using self reported age data that stays on device. and i know you might ask what about kids who secretly buy a unrestricted phone with their own money. i think at that point they deserve to have it.
by tancop
7/3/2026 at 7:59:34 AM
Unfortunate fact is that many victims consider predators manipulating them ”friends”. That’s how grooming works. We have discussed the safety of online spaces for 20-30 years now, always hearing the whatever okatform ”doing their utmost for the protection of children bla bla bla” and nothing changes. Meta, Snapchat and various games like Roblox could wipe this issue out of existent today if they wanted to. They won’t.The fact is that we as a society have so far put the convenience and entertainment of adults before well-being of children and others, who are in the most weakest position.
by delis-thumbs-7e