4/14/2026 at 5:46:09 AM
I kind of feel like people know how to human, and how the humans around them human, but someone they've never met but only heard about or seen on TV or in meme posts? No clue at all.Sure, we know the hotshot CEO of COMPANY_NAME_HERE has to put on his pants one leg at a time, but the similarity ends there. They're different, they won't fall for the stupid tricks we fall for. They don't have trouble getting out of bed or ever worry about what their kids are up to. They have CEO spouses that don't ask them to take out the trash or think about which yogurt to buy.
On the flip side, if they do something bad, that's because they're evil. A deep dark evil totally unlike the banal lameness of the people around us. They don't do stupid shit when someone jerks their chain and they get all worked up. Why would they, they're surrounded by money and other powerful people and have servants feeding them brilliant insights all day long. Everything they do is planned and calculated and they think through the damage they're doing to people in excruciating detail.
There's only one species of humans on Earth, and we're all dumb as shit.
by sfink
4/14/2026 at 6:01:21 AM
> Sure, we know the hotshot CEO of COMPANY_NAME_HERE has to put on his pants one leg at a time, but the similarity ends there.That’s probably because we know consciously or subconsciously that in order to get and maintain a position of power at a multibillion dollar firm the person either never had a moral compass or quickly had to find ways to justify ignoring or compromising it.
Any one of us who has worked for one of those companies is pretty confident the person running it views other humans not in the way you describe, but as numbers in a spreadsheet who can either justify their continued employment by other numbers in a spreadsheet or not.
Most of us can’t imagine viewing and treating our fellow humans that way.
by tw04
4/14/2026 at 6:14:57 AM
You are still falling for the evil genius trap. The truth is all of us treat our fellow humans this way, see Singer's drowning child. We're simply not wired to care as much about even large groups of people when they are not people we regularly interact with.by eastof
4/14/2026 at 7:31:38 AM
Where did the above commenter say “genius?”Evil is boring because it is so usual. With the small power I’m given I choose not to recycle, I jaywalk, I say the “R” word in private conversation. If I were a line manager I would play favorites and skip mentorship opportunities if I were tired or busy. As a middle manager I might forget the names of some of my indirect reports and unwittingly pit teams against each other. As my power increases, the fallout of my human actions has larger and more “evil” sounding consequences.
Remember that 99.9% of people do not consider themselves to be the bad guy, yet more than 0.01% of people are bad guys. Almost no one identifies with evil, yet evil is a string that runs through every beating heart.
by justonceokay
4/14/2026 at 7:44:49 AM
>Remember that 99.9% of people do not consider themselves to be the bad guy, yet more than 0.01% of people are bad guys. Almost no one identifies with evil, yet evil is a string that runs through every beating heart."estimate the prevalence rate of psychopathy in the general adult population at 4.5%." [0]
You do most of humanity a disservice by lumping them in with that cohort that may or may not identify themselves as evil (I have no idea) but are certainly capable of deliberately and with calculation behaving in ways that most of us would label with the "E" word.
Sometimes being judgmental is ok.
by colinb
4/14/2026 at 7:47:26 AM
> Where did the above commenter say “genius?”It's the transparent subtext. Like, blindingly transparent.
GGP's comment is talking about how CEOs are special or different than we are. That is, that they're not just evil, but that they're evil geniuses. It's just Great Man Theory with a Snidely Whiplash costume.
by da_chicken
4/14/2026 at 7:52:49 AM
whats the R wordby globalnode
4/14/2026 at 10:27:02 AM
"Retarded""Mental Retardation" used to be a common term signed into law and documents but was removed in ~2010. Since then, it has become more of a slur than a description.
by wallst07
4/14/2026 at 7:35:55 AM
> The truth is all of us treat our fellow humans this way.Nah, I think it is more common of a cultural thing in individualistic societies. I know plenty of people who are worried about the future outlook of others they have never met. For example what phones and social media is doing to our children, or the state of the economy for young people.
by wasmainiac
4/14/2026 at 9:07:19 AM
I don't think it has much to do with individualism/collectivism. A lot of people are worried about a lot of things beyond themselves; most eventually realize it's bad for mental health and grow out of it, some pick a cause or three and act to make things better, and then there's also the lot that signal worry because it makes them look good.Of course this is a process, so especially with younger populations, you are going to meet a lot of people worrying about random issues big and small, because it takes time to process it and learn the coping strategies.
by TeMPOraL
4/14/2026 at 7:49:50 AM
I really don't think the collectivist societies are that far ahead. People just invent out groups. India's castes, China's Uyghur's, Japan's castes and treatment of Korea and China, etc. Religious out groups, ethnic out groups, cultural out groups, linguistic out groups, etc. The list is just as long.by da_chicken
4/14/2026 at 1:54:15 PM
Uh, no. That you believe that is more indicative of your proclivities than anyone else's, and also indicates the people around you are such that haven't challenged you to disabuse you of the notion. It isn't normal. It isn't okay to treat people as just numbers or means to an end, and Dunbar's number is not a license to be a psychopath to people beyond the handful we actively maintain relationships with.You should treat people empathetically. You should treat the failure to do so by people as something noteworthy and concerning. The fact we as a society seek to optimize for elevating psychopaths for personal gain is part of the problem we've created for ourselves, and to be quite frank, was probably hijacked as early as the founding of the United States into a really problematic, if value creating cornerstone of society that could probably use a good deal of sunlight being shone on it for disinfection and rot clearing purposes.
by salawat
4/14/2026 at 7:48:24 AM
Two people see an opportunity to make money. One of them recognizes the venture would harm the people involved and decides not to. The other either does not see the harm (so not a genius) or simply doesn't care (sociopath?). That person does the thing and makes the money.That person is either some level of naive, some level of evil, but certainly not an evil genius.
by Swenrekcah
4/14/2026 at 6:26:17 AM
> That’s probably because we know consciously or subconsciously that in order to get and maintain a position of power at a multibillion dollar firm the person either never had a moral compass or quickly had to find ways to justify ignoring or compromising it.Maybe. But I suspect that we tend to view those people that way because they play the I Am A Special Human game in public, especially around those they want to impress / are afraid of, and they really aren't very different from the rest of us at any time. We do the same shit when we're around people we want to impress / are afraid of.
I do agree that the situations such people are in will influence them. They'll have to get used to making decisions that make a big impact on a lot of people's lives, and they'll start thinking that such things are more normal than you and I ever will. I just don't think it changes them all that much.
> Any one of us who has worked for one of those companies is pretty confident the person running it views other humans not in the way you describe, but as numbers in a spreadsheet who can either justify their continued employment by other numbers in a spreadsheet or not.
Okay. But I would do the same, and I'm farther from being a CEO than anyone I know. I can afford to care. If I were thrust into such a position, I would have to squash that caring in order to not cause a great deal of harm to those people I care about. Don't let a doctor operate on his/her own children.
But get me and the CEO sitting in comfy chairs and shooting the shit after work, and I don't think there'll be much of a difference between us. My jokes will be a little funnier, and he'll be more confident and less awkward. But that's just me, not blue CEO blood.
Tell you what. Give me a billion or two dollars and I'll go to a billionaire's hangout. I bet they'll make the same stupid wisecracks, talk about basically the same crap the rest of us do, and get indigestion from eating the too-rich food.
I don't exactly disagree with you. Power changes people. It is tempting and easier to become amoral and accustomed to some pretty messed up stuff. It just doesn't change everything about them. In particular, they have the same dysfunctional thought patterns, they make the same sort of cognitive errors, they struggle with the same shit.
> Most of us can’t imagine viewing and treating our fellow humans that way.
I can.
Perhaps it's not that I have a higher opinion of the CEO/billionaire class, it's that I have a lower opinion of all of us. Nazis were not uniquely evil. I think that's become even more obviously true of late. (Did I just invoke Godwin's Law? So be it.)
by sfink
4/14/2026 at 7:34:26 AM
Your entire point of humans being clumsy and stoopid and not inherently evil is generally true but for this benign incompetence is why all the discrimination layers, from scool grades to referals, etc. exist.Whould you give a physician making life-or-death decisions and opsi-budget before you walk away? No. Then where do you draw the line until this irresponsible behavior becomes evil? Evil is defined here not by the individuals intentions but by the outcome.
Would you agree with me, that all the decision makers and elites sabotaging renewable energies and sustainability are evil? Keep in mind, they all might have their clumsy excuses.
by throwawayqqq11
4/14/2026 at 7:31:14 AM
> Nazis were not uniquely evilI agree. It would be great if we were all to keep our guard up and recognise the Germans were fathers sisters and daughters as well, yet they were also consumed by evil.
From a distance I disagree with how Israel conducted itself in Gaza but I have no doubt any other western country would do the same if 1000s of their civilian citizens including children were kidnapped and murdered.
I always imagine what I would feel if some people in a music festival near Guadiana river (Portuguese Spanish border) went through what the Israeli citizens did. I would feel like being evil.
That is by the way why I don’t watch the news. I know all the far flung evil deeds are not for the “other”. They are in my heart and everyone around me.
After all Eischman was just following his moral imperative of obeying the law.
by ptsneves
4/14/2026 at 7:53:10 AM
"I have no doubt any other western country would do the same if 1000s of their civilian citizens including children were kidnapped and murdered."So this is how you expect the rest of the world to treat the US? Just torture and murder their civilians and erase their homes and culture?
The US killed, maimed and displaced many millions of iraqis, should we help the iraqis exterminate the US population?
by cess11
4/14/2026 at 12:30:40 PM
The US does not set out to capture civilians, while the hamas does. It matters. All the rest of the comment makes no sense in light of that.Also you omitted the part where I said I disagreed with what Israel did. But as a human I believe we are evil like that, and I am really sorry about it.
by ptsneves
4/14/2026 at 1:23:40 PM
That's a weird lie. The US mainly targets civilians and irregular troops.by cess11
4/14/2026 at 6:07:00 AM
If they're not special, why do we have to pay them so much just to get out of bed?by mitthrowaway2
4/14/2026 at 7:10:17 AM
I was part of CEO recruitment process (sadly not FAANG-like, so maybe it wasn't "so much"-level yet).Amount of people who are both seriously willing to take the job(considering pressure) and have necessary skills is not very high. Tbh same is truth for any management job - a lot of competent people prefer calmer life.
Obviously for the very top compensation is bonkers and there's fair share of frauds that ended in the position for various reasons, but if you want someone reasonable pool shrinks quite fast.
by dzikimarian
4/14/2026 at 7:36:09 AM
> a lot of competent people prefer calmer lifeI may not be _that_ competent, but the calmer life is worth sacrificing a fair few dollars for. For each job I've changed, I've gone to a lower paying position, such that I'm currently still on $10k (around 8%) less than I was earning... 5 years ago, two jobs ago, which was probably about the same as the job I left 6 years before that. All previous jobs were worth leaving.
Parenting, maintaining a long-term relationship, playing (two, kinda) sport(s), home-labbing, keeping up with the state of the world, all take time and I enjoy all of them. It allows me to enjoy the work I do too, to not resent it for all the other things I could have been doing.
I'm in a position of privilege to say any of this, but I've also been careful and relatively well planned with my finances in order to reach this point. I'd be kinda f'd if I was out of work for longer than 6 months, but I'm sure I could re-plan and re-organise priorities and spending to minimise the damage (but we'd definitely be f'd if we both were out of work...).
by BLKNSLVR
4/14/2026 at 11:11:48 AM
Have you considered being paid $20 million for one year, and then staying home with family for the next ten years? Even after taxes, you'd still have much more of both time and money than a career in, say, air traffic control.by mitthrowaway2
4/14/2026 at 1:20:32 PM
Maybe, if that was even offered as an option. I doubt I'm that competent, however, and just the fact I have that doubt probably excludes me from the possibility.by BLKNSLVR
4/14/2026 at 1:39:42 PM
Oh don't worry, even if you fail at the job, you can still receive a golden parachute worth more than your employees will earn in their whole careers.https://www.manufacturing.net/aerospace/news/21109798/boeing...
by mitthrowaway2
4/14/2026 at 2:41:16 PM
I genuinely don't think I'd be able to sleep at night.It's fucking gross. If a person can live with it, they don't deserve to.
by BLKNSLVR
4/14/2026 at 11:18:03 AM
[dead]by cindyllm
4/14/2026 at 10:03:59 AM
>Amount of people who are both seriously willing to take the job(considering pressure) and have necessary skills is not very high.I don't believe that. The average CEO is going to have perhaps ten direct reports. I'm willing to bet nearly every one of those is capable and up for the job.
by tonyedgecombe
4/14/2026 at 10:35:02 AM
I don't think so, not even close.In my past I got high enough to barely touch the ceiling of a multi-billion dollar public company. I routinely had 1:1s with directs to the CEO. Not one of them would be willing or able to take that CEO job.
Just the amount of public facing interviews on CNBC would disqualify half and the other half wouldn't want to do it. They were already being paid very well.
by wallst07
4/14/2026 at 7:13:27 AM
If everyone actually came together and decided that they are not worth paying what they are paid now the compensation would likely normalize to a few multiples of other roles.But lot of compensation is just magic money out of air that is stock valuations so the stock holder just gives slice of what they think they made. So as long as they financialised system exist so will extreme compensations.
by Ekaros
4/14/2026 at 9:13:39 AM
Since most of it is magic money, I'm not sure how much sense is there in evaluating them on it. I.e. if I were suddenly worth $1B, but 90% of that was in a mix of assets I can't do anything with, and some bullshit Wall Street fake money that, at this scale, disappears the moment you look at it, then the actual money I could use would be much, much less.by TeMPOraL
4/14/2026 at 6:27:38 AM
That's a good question, and although I think I have a good answer, I fear it would be too much of a tangent to speculate on here.by sfink
4/14/2026 at 6:32:07 AM
If we're not speculating, what are we even doing here?by jamauro
4/14/2026 at 6:47:09 AM
They are just humans, but if they wield more power, more responsibility should be expected of them. Not just for the business they represent, but also for the society they have an outsized influence upon.by dv_dt
4/14/2026 at 7:03:07 AM
> They have CEO spouses that don't ask them to take out the trash or think about which yogurt to buy.From 'Curb your enthusiasm', I've learnt that that's actually the only thing they ever do.
by gobdovan
4/14/2026 at 9:27:48 AM
Yaay! I get a chance to bring up IOED - the illusion of explanatory depth [1]We kinda know how something works, but if we had to draw it out, we’re stumped. The classic example is drawing a bicycle or explaining how a flush works. (You might be able to draw it, or explain it, but that doesn’t obviate the point)
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusion_of_explanatory_depth
by intended
4/14/2026 at 12:30:35 PM
... no... you are just incredibly condescending.by hackable_sand