4/9/2026 at 2:03:14 PM
English used to have dual pronouns (what the article is a about), proper accusatives and genitives (she/her/hers, who/whom and the apostrophe-s genitive are survivors), formal/informal 2nd person pronouns (you / thou) and quite a few other things that come up when you learn French or Latin.Yes/No and Yea/Nay used to mean different things too: "Is this correct?" could be answered "Yea, it is correct" whereas "Is this not a mistake?" could be answered "Yes, it is correct" (which you can also parse by taking the 'not' literally).
"Courts martial" and "secretaries general" are examples where the original noun-first word order remains.
by red_admiral
4/9/2026 at 4:51:10 PM
The formal/informal second person thing is fascinating to me as a Portuguese speaker.European Portuguese, like many (most?) Romance languages, has the informal/formal second person split. Brazilian Portuguese has dropped the informal second person (tu) and uses only the formal second person (você).
Now, because “thou” is archaic, it sounds overly stiff, and most English speakers assume it was the formal second person, but it was actually the informal form. So both Brazilian Portuguese and English underwent the same process and chose the same way.
by pdpi
4/9/2026 at 7:45:45 PM
In English particularly, people associate "thou" with the King James Bible and similar Christian texts ("Our Father, thou art in Heaven…") and might reasonably assume that if "thou" was used to address the literal God, it must have been the formal pronoun – but the familial, informal one was used exactly because of the "father" association! (OTOH there certainly are languages with a tu/vous distinction where children were expected to "vous" their own parents – not sure how much of a thing it is these days).Another fun thing is that calling someone you don't know "thou" used to be an intentional insult ("you're not worthy of being called 'you'"), something that might be missed by a modern reader of Shakespeare or other EME texts.
by Sharlin
4/9/2026 at 8:52:03 PM
It depends a lot on where you were brought up, and the language you were exposed to. My first association would be a very Yorkshire, “Thou knowest,” rather than the king james.by aardvark179
4/9/2026 at 10:18:22 PM
... thar knows nowt!by gerdesj
4/9/2026 at 8:54:11 PM
> (OTOH there certainly are languages with a tu/vous distinction where children were expected to "vous" their own parents – not sure how much of a thing it is these days).It's interesting that in Viennese German (my German is terrible but I do at least try) it seems like the informal form is the default, in a shop I get asked "Braucht du hilfe?" rather than the formal "Kann ich Ihnen helfen?".
Maybe this is what they mean when they say people in Vienna are rude, but coming from Scotland using informal language even in fairly serious settings just seems comfortable and normal.
by ErroneousBosh
4/10/2026 at 12:20:13 AM
This can also change with the times —as in, within living memory.My grandma used the formal address when reminiscing about going to the bakery when she was young but in the present she would use the familiar form and even the clerks would use a fake formal at best if they were feeling particularly grateful for having a job that day.
by avadodin
4/9/2026 at 5:28:41 PM
Also, "você" is actually not originally a proper formal second person. Grammatically, "você" is a third person singular. It comes from "Vossa Mercê" (something like "Your Mercy" or "Your Grace"), shortened to "vossemeçê", to "você". The origin, and still today a common gramatical construction in Portuguese in any formal or semi-formal register, is to use a periphrase in the third person to increase politeness. I guess in English it also exists, but only on the most fully formal contexts ("Does that right honourable gentleman agree...").by andrepd
4/9/2026 at 5:45:51 PM
Similarly, Spanish "vuestra merced" evolved to "usted".by madcaptenor
4/9/2026 at 8:34:12 PM
And likewise the Romanian “dumneavoastră” evolved into… nothing, that’s still the polite form of “you” in Romanian. Interestingly though, it can be used in both the singular and plural, and takes verbs conjugated exactly the same way for both forms (i.e. the second person plural).by zoky
4/10/2026 at 3:52:42 AM
Note that Romanian also has a second person singular formal pronoun, "dumneata", though it's use today is very rare and isn't actually considered polite. This is probably since Romanian, like most Romance languages, often omits the subject in phrases, so the real politeness marker ends up being just the use of second person plural verb forms to refer to a singular speaker ("mă puteți ajuta" is far more common instead of "dumneavoastră mă puteți ajuta" without the omitted subject, while the informal version is the singular "mă poți ajuta", which "dumneata mă poți ajuta" would also require - all of these phrases meaning "can [you] help me").The origin for both is more "your lordship" ("domnia ta/voastră") than "your mercy", as well.
by tsimionescu
4/9/2026 at 7:58:54 PM
As in 'please', from 'if you please'?by esquivalience
4/9/2026 at 4:01:10 PM
I thought courts martial and secretaries general (and Knights Templar/Hospitaller, et al) were Anglo-Norman/French borrowings. Do you have any examples of native English phrases following that pattern?by stevula
4/9/2026 at 10:27:54 PM
A relative presided over a couple of court martials (1) in the past. Modern usage has largely disconnected it from the past, grammatically (if that is even a thing, except to the true minutaephile)!(1) https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/court-martial-res...
by gerdesj
4/9/2026 at 6:52:38 PM
Whoppers juniorby doobiedowner
4/9/2026 at 7:32:41 PM
AirPods Pro :)by brandonhorst
4/9/2026 at 8:35:56 PM
Passersbyby zoky
4/9/2026 at 8:24:26 PM
Hards onby drewstiff
4/9/2026 at 7:46:33 PM
Light fantasticby FarmerPotato
4/9/2026 at 9:25:41 PM
Early Quakers rejected using different 2nd person pronouns for different people since it violated their principle of egalitarianism so they called everyone thee/thou (and got into trouble for it as you might expect).https://www.nytimes.com/2019/11/16/opinion/sunday/pronouns-q...
by lemoncucumber
4/10/2026 at 2:30:47 AM
There's a wonderful story about William Penn (yes, the William Penn who founded Pennsylvania and after whom it was named) nearly getting into trouble for his Quaker beliefs, except that King Charles II graciously forgave him. The story made it into a biography of Charles's mistress Eleanor "Nell" Gwyn, and can be read here: https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Story_of_Nell_Gwyn/Chapte...Briefly, William Penn refused to take his hat off in the presence of King Charles, due to his Quaker beliefs in egalitarianism. This would have gotten him into very serious trouble for lèse-majesté, except that the king took his own hat off. "Friend Charles," said Penn (who had apparently never heard of the saying that when you're in a hole you should stop digging), "why dost thou not keep on thy hat?" And King Charles II replied, "'Tis the custom of this place that only one person should be covered at a time." Of course, normally it was the king who would keep his crown on. But after Charles said that, nobody in the court could bring a charge of lèse-majesté against William Penn for the incident.
by rmunn
4/9/2026 at 3:09:39 PM
This sucks because yes its a mistake or no its not a mistake both fitby triage8004
4/9/2026 at 3:55:27 PM
they don't fit, because 'yes' was not supposed to be used in the context of 'yes it is a mistake', yea was. Having two words helped stop that ambiguity.by adammarples
4/9/2026 at 4:29:34 PM
It's confusing because it was stated wrongly.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yes_and_no#The_Early_English_f...
Yes contradicts the negative question. So "Is this not a mistake?" should be contradicted with "yes, it is a mistake" or affirmed with "no, it is not a mistake".
It's further confusing because we have the idiom of suggesting things politely in a tentative manner such as isn't this a mistake? which has lost its sense of negativity and has come to mean "this is a mistake, I think," as opposed to being parsed literally to mean "this is not-a-mistake, I think".
by card_zero
4/10/2026 at 6:52:24 AM
Very interesting.From Wikipedia:
> English had a four-form system, comprising the words yea, nay, yes, and no. Yes contradicts a negatively formulated question, No affirms it; Yea affirms a positively formulated question, Nay contradicts it.
> Will they not go? — Yes, they will.
> Will they not go? — No, they will not.
> Will they go? — Yea, they will.
> Will they go? — Nay, they will not.
So, this has obviously simplified. But what I find interesting is that English speakers from the Philippines or from a Russian background chose differently (where SME is standard modern English, and PRE is Philippine/"Russian" English):
Will they not go? — SME: Yes, they will. PRE: No, they will. [Not sure about that one.]
Will they not go? — SME: No, they will not. PRE: Yes, they will not. [I hear this all the time from non-native English speakers.]
Will they go? — SME/PRE: Yes, they will.
Will they go? — SME/PRE: No, they will not.
ETA from Wikipedia :-)
> In December 1993, a witness in a court in Stirlingshire, Scotland, answered "aye" to confirm he was the person summoned, but was told by a sheriff judge that he must answer either yes or no, or else be held in contempt of court. When asked if he understood, he replied "aye" again, and was imprisoned for 90 minutes for contempt of court. On his release he said, "I genuinely thought I was answering him."
by FabHK
4/9/2026 at 8:00:51 PM
I'm trying to parse the extra "not" in archaic holdovers vs plain modern English. It seems to carry a subtext.Modern "Are you happy now?" is said with sarcastic tone, to spoil happiness. Would be archaically "Are you not happy?" As if to dare contradiction. It's loaded, unlike when saying sympathetically "Are you unhappy?"
Others:
"Are you not entertained?" "Are you not the very same Smith that dwelt at Haversham?" "Prick me, do I not bleed?"
But commonly: "Are you not a Christian?" most likely seems direct, but said in a formal sense, "rhetorically", an exhortation to act like one.
by FarmerPotato
4/9/2026 at 11:35:57 PM
It's worth noting that early on in English, þu/ģe (thou/ye) did not say anything about formality. It was just singular and plural.by LAC-Tech
4/9/2026 at 6:07:46 PM
And we’ve literally born witness to yet another step in the trend of diluting our corpus of pronouns. The trend is very clearly from more articulate to less.“They” and “their” for my whole lifetime were plurals. Now we’ve pretty much lost the mere clarity of knowing if the pronoun means 1 person or more than 1 person. Was watching “Adolescence” and the police mentioned “they” in regards to the victim of a crime. I was mistakenly under the impression that there weee multiple victims for much of the episode.
I’m very clearly slow to adapt to the new definitions.
by matt-attack
4/9/2026 at 6:22:01 PM
The article points out that Chaucer used "they" to refer to singular unknown person, so the usage is very old. It seems more respectful than assuming they are male.I find myself wrong all the time, and I'm glad for the lesson!
by w10-1
4/9/2026 at 6:48:18 PM
Leaning on Chaucer isn't sufficient, because it was once a pronoun used for people:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/It_(pronoun)
So maybe we should bring back it, or ignore Chaucer as an authority.
by card_zero
4/9/2026 at 11:00:34 PM
The point isn't that we should all speak like Chaucer, it's that singular they isn't a new thing within our lifetimes.by Hasnep
4/9/2026 at 11:40:33 PM
I get what you’re saying, but Chaucer was not in _my_ lifetime.by danielheath
4/10/2026 at 12:54:35 AM
"They" has been used as a singular pronoun continuously since Chaucer. Shakespeare used it. Dickens used it.Even people who complain about the singular "they" use it when they're not paying attention. It's a regular part of the English language.
by DiogenesKynikos
4/10/2026 at 1:06:25 AM
But not with continuity, not popularly over that whole time span.If it's something we're all accustomed to and comfortable with, why even mention that it was being used in the distant past? The article is trying to simultaneously argue "try this new term they, it's easy, everybody's saying it now, it's modern, you'll love it" and "this term is not at all strange and new, you're silly if you feel uncomfortable with it because it has always been used." It's trying to have it both ways in its wrangling.
Do people also casually use it to refer to humans, or is it just me?
by card_zero
4/10/2026 at 9:26:52 AM
In my experience, everyone who complains about the use of the singular "they" uses it themselves all the time when they're not thinking about it.The reason why there's any debate at all about the singular they is not because it's new and strange. It's because beginning in the mid-18th century, influential grammar textbooks started discouraging its use and advocating "he" in its place. Many generations of kids have grown up being told in school that the singular "they" is wrong, but despite that, it has remained a very standard part of spoken English.
by DiogenesKynikos
4/10/2026 at 6:56:31 AM
(It used to be "_borne_ witness", so fast enough in adapting to new ways?)by FabHK
4/9/2026 at 7:26:06 PM
"They" has always (in our lifetimes) been used to refer to a singular person of unknown gender. For example "someone left their coat here. They must be cold"by etskinner
4/9/2026 at 10:01:04 PM
Indeed. What's new is not referring to someone of unknown gender as "they", but rather people identifying as non-gender-specific, and wanting to be referred to as "they". That's the part that feels so awkward, IMHO, not simply they as one person.by the_biot
4/10/2026 at 12:43:41 AM
No that's incorrect. Use his/he or her/she if the coat appears to be one that would be worn by a male or female. If uncertain, use male pronouns, which are gender neutral in that scenario.by SoftTalker
4/10/2026 at 3:21:13 AM
I must have missed the brief somewhere, but there was/is a very clear trend to replace the default male pronoun for gender neutrality with the female pronoun she. Just recently I noticed this in Judea Pearl’s Book of Why. When and why did this start happening? It feels so forced and unnatural. You can sense he’s trying to kiss someone’s ass or appease an authority. At least mix it up a bit at best if you truly give a crap.by laichzeit0
4/10/2026 at 12:55:26 AM
There is a difference between "correct" and "how it is actually used by real people."by explodes
4/10/2026 at 5:41:45 AM
Incorrect according to who? You? Your Sainted Mother? Sounds innovative to me, and hardly traditional. Saying male is somehow gender neutral sounds even more bizarre.No, usage makes correctness in language, not people trying to invent some weird conlang they wrongly insist is correct English.
by msla