The poor people that vote Democrat are in a large part also responsible for what is going on.If you rewind time back to the election in 2024, in the year leading up to it, if you were to treat conservatives like the pieces of shit that they are in social settings, the vast majority of people including the poorer people that vote Democrat, would think you are an insane leftist.
And even today, with all the shit going on, its really quite unclear to me that anyone who supports Trump isn't treated with absolute disdain, if not violence. There are still people who are conservatives that think what Trump is doing is right, that still mingle with liberals in social groups, and everyone is just supposed to respect each other.
Somehow, there is a disconnect in peoples heads, where saying bigoted, racist, hateful shit is not ok, but voting for someone who does and makes policy around those ideas is supposed to be respected as a "political opinion", and we are supposed to focus on unity on people who want to actively make our lives worse.
Without the general public shift where conservatives are seen as absolute evil, nothing is going to change. Even in the best case scenario where Dems take the house and then the presidency, nothing is going to really change, we will just vote another conservative down the line, and now, they have a playbook of what went right and what went wrong during Trumps term, so they can rob the country even more and get away with it.
So the best anyone can hope for is for everyone to get whiplash from reality hitting them so hard in the face that they start paying attention.