5/22/2025 at 2:55:51 AM
I “got over” mine after many months of “tinnitus meditation” (there’s a short book on this written by a guy who has some crazy disease that causes extra-bad tinnitus). Basically, you meditate by purposefully focusing on your tinnitus. It starts to flip your brain’s response from one of fear to one of relaxation. Even within the first session, you’ll find that when you try to focus on the noise for as long as you can (use a timer and start with 5 mins), you eventually get distracted and think about something else, even if just for a moment. Then you realize that your brain isn’t “forced” to notice it - and the more you practice this, the better you’ll get at noticing it and gently pivoting your attention back to.. the rest of the world. The noise never goes away, your ability to ignore it just improves over time.The book is a quick read and helpful: https://a.co/d/ckOzbSq
I no longer meditate as often, but when I do, it’s actually still quite effective. I now see it more as a “retreat” of sorts - I can just kind of dissociate and let the ringing take over. Reading this article brought it back, incidentally.. but I’m ok with it. Once you fully surrender to the noise, you can start to let go of it. It’s the mental resistance that makes it hard to deal with.
by plaidfuji
5/22/2025 at 4:28:40 AM
I’ve had it since I was a kid. One day I just noticed how strange it was that silence sounded like this. I was maybe 6 or 7? Eventually just got used to experiencing silence like this. However, I usually only become aware of it when I’m alone - more so indoors at night time.by sheepscreek
5/22/2025 at 6:28:21 AM
But that isn’t tinnitus right? I noticed mine right around the same time and I call it the “aether noise”.To me, regular tinnitus (which I also had for a few days after concerts) could be matched and recreated with a tone generator, and is much more “in your face” despite being the same volume by the end of my ears healing.
Aether noise on the other hand sounds multi tone, not a buzz or a hum. I have not yet managed to recreate it. I can hear it all the time if I can focus on it, but it only calls attention to itself in dead silence.
Do you have visual snow by chance too?
by no_time
5/22/2025 at 8:06:17 AM
Not OP, but yes! I've had the exact same "symptoms" my entire life.- A faint multi-tonal background "hiss", only apparent during silence, never goes away but is quite relaxing. I'm hesitant to even call it tinnitus - Visual snow. I have early memories from at least 5 or 6, staring at the blue sky and noticing it's not pure (I see blue as everyone else, but with a very transparent layer of static)
I have attributed it to something "off" in the sensory filtering part of my brain
by t34t4hthh
5/22/2025 at 9:14:52 AM
It's so subtle I've for a long time wondered if it's something most people experience and don't notice, or they assume is normal, just because unless I think about it I don't really notice it either. I have been known to focus on details more than others do. Not sure if this contributes to my seemingly heightened sense of smell as well. But not being able to experience what others experience, makes me wonder if I'll ever know.by circularfoyers
5/22/2025 at 10:03:10 AM
I always thought that was just blood flow in the ears. Would make sense if that would cause _some_ noise.by laszlojamf
5/22/2025 at 10:49:56 AM
>It's so subtle I've for a long time wondered if it's something most people experience and don't notice, or they assume is normalI wondered this myself too. One thing I do know is nobody was able to relate from friends and family when mentioning this. Visual snow syndrome (which according to affected people online can be very disabling) was only first described as late as 2015 according to wikipedia. So we may never know at this pace.
by no_time
5/22/2025 at 10:30:33 AM
heh welcome to the club I guess. I always knew it’s not only me, even though nobody knew what i was talking about when explaining these symptoms.Not quite tinnitus, much less drastic than anyone describing their diagnosed visual snow symptoms. Could be a very mild case of VSS or an yet to be named condition.
by no_time
5/22/2025 at 1:24:18 PM
Aether noise is a great name for it. Just really quiet broad-spectrum noise.I remember reading a long time ago that it was caused by "the neurons in your ears occasionally randomly firing" but I cannot find any source for that, so assume that it's untrue :)
by camtarn
5/22/2025 at 7:51:48 PM
The audiologist I went to said tinnitus is anything you can hear that doesn't have an external source. In his case, he's always been able to hear his own heartbeat.by dakr
5/22/2025 at 9:51:20 PM
On that note, I can usually hear my heartbeat after any mild physical effort. Like a short brisk walk or waking up a flight of stairs very quickly. I’m not very athletic or fit, perhaps that could be a contributing factor. Not all the time though - if that is what your audiologist meant, that’s very cool.by sheepscreek
5/23/2025 at 2:05:51 AM
There is research I only learned about recently that is showing that some tinnitus can be heard with a microphone (surprisingly), this is showing that some are due to spasms causing actual sound!by mensetmanusman
5/22/2025 at 2:42:41 PM
I have the aural version of this. Buddhists might liken this to a nimitta, a qualia of your consciousnessby leche
5/22/2025 at 3:09:15 AM
I've recently developed tinnitus within the last few months, so I'm still early in my researching. However, I've found a lot of people that discount this approach and swear it only makes things worse. That's why I've been hesitant to try it.Do you think a lot of it has to do with having the right mindset?
by sepositus
5/22/2025 at 3:42:50 AM
It honestly may depend on how bad it is and how you react to it. For me, it was causing almost a constant panic-level reaction for weeks. I couldn’t sleep without heavy drugs, and I would wake up sweating and on edge. Just non-stop. I took a fair bit of time off work because of how hard it was to focus. So suffice to say I was willing to try anything.. and the meditation aspect was necessary for me beyond just reducing tinnitus. But I can’t see how it would make things worse, at least not in a permanent way.by plaidfuji
5/22/2025 at 4:24:15 AM
I had bad tinnitus years ago that thankfully eventually largely went awayThat said, always having some white noise or music going helped a lot
by emeril
5/22/2025 at 12:40:03 PM
I haven't used this technique myself but I can ignore it most of the time, and I think that's an important place to get to. For me, I feel that a big part of it is simply acceptance. If I'd get worked up over it every time I'm noticing it, I think it would be a lot harder to ignore over time. It sucks but this way it sucks a lot less.It's a funny thing - like a bear in the woods type thing. Sometimes, when its existence gets called to my attention, like when I started reading this story and the comments just now, I suddenly realize how loud it is - but also how I've gone about my whole day without any problems, despite it having been there all the time. Not sure if that makes sense, but that's my experience and it's - fine, really.
Not saying that you shouldn't try other things, and I also don't really know how to get there beyond going easy on yourself. I'm just saying that to me being able to ignore it makes a huge difference in my life quality and so I think it's very worth pursuing. Good luck!
by thrway482119
5/22/2025 at 11:39:45 AM
It reminds me to the intro to Odesza’s “A Moment Apart” album where an astronaut is up in space with a ticking sound and decides he has to fall in love with it for his sanity.by tyleo
5/22/2025 at 6:28:33 AM
Thank you for recommendation. My tinnitus become quite severe now. For past three years it's almost impossible to sleep after waking up in the middle of the night. Overwhelming ringing is hard to ignore.by bvrmn
5/22/2025 at 8:46:28 AM
Next step would be to meditate on root cause of the condition. Whatever it is, your body/brain knows.by Dolores12
5/22/2025 at 10:37:06 AM
The root cause is usually over loud sound breaking something in your ear.by tim333